like all good relationship being flushed down the toliet bowl i always wondered:

what's with this unspoken 3-day rule

there is this rule

its true

although you may not believe in it ..it is there. tucked away secretly behind every girl's mind. the big secret 3 DAY RULE OF THUMB

now, ALL men are dumb, daft , or emo-ly dead we have all got to admit that

even men admit that of men. so how can we women not. anyway , lemme get back to my 3 day rule.

there is a saying, well a thought :that whenever there is a BIG lovers quarrel, fight, head-bashing, car-wrecking moment in a relationship both parties tend to do the distancing act. you know the one. the one where the guys disappear on you, the girls grab out they slutty heels and galpals and go xtreme shopping. yeah. THAT one. stupid moments which cause large hiccups in coupledom. girl cries, guys simply be guys. everyone gets hurt. that kind

well to the guys reading this post here's a tip from me

never let a quarrel then a gap of silence exceed more than 3 days. or u die. its like saying u don't care and you never did. might as well throw in a "thanks for the memories" note along with the silence. erm.. unless of course this is your intention in your first place

girls are such funny things. we wait

yesssssssssss.. we wait. and we also go into denial. oh he will change. its just a phase he is going through. he was abused by his mom thats why he cannot relate to women. blah blah blah run through our mind. everything to excuse this jerk of a guy. but why ladies ? are they really worth it?

well most girls have this 3 day rule which they impose.

1st day: the killer and axe muder im gonna rip your balls out get away from me phase

2nd day:the simmering anger and the questioner you lying cheating bastard don't you care phase

3rd day:the hurt frail and alone i hate you! why haven't you called me and apologise..AHEM i'm waiting phase

after exceeding day 3 thats when all hell breaks loose

it is a unspoken agreement that the contract of "luuurrvveee" is over and that the bastard oughta have died. what relationship? was there one in the first place ? nahh-uhh

some guys use this rule to their advantage of course

all rules are meant to be bent both ways after all. but the girls always amaze me but their resilence through all the shit thrown at them. worst bit is the self pitying and self blame.

on a moment of reflection i thought i sounded a little too sexist for my liking

i do apologise to the snags out there. u are so few. its so hard to even notice from my plateau.whoops

[HEADMUSIC]: who do you love by ago (dedi to leo)

ps: are u motivated now ?